I constantly hear the statement that nothing happens between Thanksgiving and New Year’s day. That idea becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that can prevent you from moving forward in the new year.
The time between Thanksgiving and New Year’s day is what I referred to as Relationship/Gratitude month.
It is the perfect time to build and solidify relationships by giving thanks to those that have helped you in the past year as well as those that will help you in the new year. This show of gratitude, when done without an agenda and with great sincerity, will strengthen business partnerships that can carry you into the new year and beyond.
As you all know, the opposite of gratitude is ingratitude. When you don’t express gratitude and you assume the other person understands your perspective, what you really are expressing and certainly not intending to, is ingratitude.
Call up those people that have given you so much over the past six months to a year and just say thank you. Use the holiday season to send out cards to those you don’t call. Individualize each card with a note and your own signature. Make your audience feel special. Remember, this is about quality not quantity.
Jim
